Not Your Average Guy

Not Your Average Guy charts a bold, biblical path forward in a world confused about masculinity.

With honesty, grit, and grace, Mickey Eckles challenges men to reject passivity, confront compromise, and pursue godly manhood.

These ten choices are practical, rooted in Scripture, and forged through thirty years of real-life ministry with men from every walk of life.

If you’re spiritually stuck, searching for direction, or tired of pretending, this book will meet you where you are—and call you higher.

This isn’t a lecture. It’s a roadmap to strength, purpose, and freedom.

Now Available for Purchase!

We’re excited to announce that Not Your Average Guy is now available for purchase online!

Every order ships free, and you can choose between the print or eBook edition for instant reading.

Planning to order for your men’s group or church? We offer special discounted pricing on bulk orders to make it easy to share the message with others.

Books will also be available at Trinity Church, October 4–26, before and after all weekend services.

For questions about bulk orders not available online, please email us at: bonnieeckles72@gmail.com

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Not Your Average Guy

In a culture confused about masculinity, Not Your Average Guy charts a bold, biblical path forward. With honesty, grit, and grace, Mickey Eckles challenges men to: reject passivity, confront compromise, pursue godly manhood.

Rooted in Scripture and forged through thirty years of real-life ministry, these ten choices are practical, transformative, and grounded in truth.

Whether you feel spiritually stuck, lack direction, or are simply tired of pretending—this isn’t a lecture.
It’s a call to rise.

“Males are born. Men are built. And Mickey Eckles knows how to build men. Get this book. Read it. Live it. Be changed.”
— Stephen Mansfield, PhD | NYT Bestselling Author
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“Males are born. Men are built. And Mickey Eckles knows how to build men. Get this book. Read it. Live it. Be changed.”
— Stephen Mansfield, PhD New York Times Bestselling Author

If you’re tired of coasting, done with shallow living, and ready to step into the strength and purpose God designed for you—Not Your Average Guy is your next step.

  • “I’ve had the privilege of walking alongside the author for over 25 years, and I can tell you—he lives what he writes. Not Your Average Guy is more than a book; it’s a road map for men who want to rise above mediocrity and lead with character, courage, and conviction. It’s a must-read not only for men, but for anyone who loves, supports, and prays for the men in their lives.”

    Carl A. Toti

    Senior Pastor and Leadership Coach

  • “Males are born. Men are built. And Mickey Eckles knows how to build men. In this wise and powerful book, Mickey brings his experience as a pastor and as a man’s man into the lives of men hungry to be more—for God, for their families, and for their generation. Get this book. Read it. Live it. Be changed.”

    Stephen Mansfield, PhD

    New York Times Bestselling Author

  • “Intriguing and inspiring! In the midst of today’s growing epidemic of fatherlessness, this book, by my friend and pastor Mickey Eckles, provides both biblical truth and practical guidance for restoring biblical manhood. I highly recommend it to every man—and to anyone who cares about the future of men.”

    Rev. Bob Fu, PhD

    Founder & President of ChinaAid

The Not Your Average Series Is Just Getting Started.

Not Your Average Guy is just the beginning. We're passionate about helping men, marriages, and families grow strong in faith and purpose, and that means more is on the way.

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